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So you’ve just been dumped by your girlfriend and want to know “Can I get my ex girlfriend back?” Well, the first thing to figure out is whether the breakup wasn’t so devastating that you feel the relationship can be saved, and just hope she feels the same. If you hurt her during the split, apologize and say you’re sorry, AND MEAN IT! Sincerity is a good first step if you really want to get your ex girlfriend back.

If you have physically or mentally abused her, and that has led to the breakup, don’t bother reading any further, go see a Psychiatrist instead!

By showing my sensitive side, Can I get my ex girlfriend back ?

Doing things right, and showing her how sorry you are and how much  you miss her, make things more favourable for your cause. Pay attention to how she reacts, if what you do causes her to “throw her toys out the cot”, change your tactics until you find something she responds to.

Flowers or cards make no impression? Well its all too easy to just pick up the phone and order them. Try doing something off your own bat thats more appealing to her, the personal touch is what counts. Go to the Florist yourself and pick out flowers she likes and make up your own bouquet, buy a blank card and write your own verse in it, it doesn’t matter whether it rhymes or not, just honestly express how you feel.

Does she say you weren’t thoughtful or considerate during the relationship, and you want to know “Can I get my ex girlfriend back by being thoughtful and considerate?” Not necessarily, are you doing thoughtful and considerate things just to get her back, or because it feels good to make her happy? You need to be consistent by being thoughtful and considerate throughout the relationship, not just in the beginning.

If you were selfish in your relationship rarely doing thoughtful and considerate things, or you only did them in the beginning, she’s probably doubtful of the things you do now, so be patient, every bit of positive reinforcement ads up, making it easier to get her back. Whatever you do, don’t let frustration or anger raise their ugly heads.

By dating other women, Can I get my ex girlfriend back ?

Has it been a while since the breakup, and are you still working on being thoughtful and considerate? A casual date seems harmless and may make her wish she was your date, just don’t go too far, it could come down on you like a ton of bricks.

Say she’s got a boyfriend, Can I get my ex girlfriend back ?

Probably not, but don’t give up hope, if you can prove to her that she’ll be happier with you than the new boyfriend you have a good chance. Being thoughtful, considerate and sincere will go a long way toward showing her that.

If she seems to have moved on, send her a handwritten card anyway, wishing her well, and not showing you have any expectations. Your thoughtfulness and sincerity might really impress her.

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