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How to Get Your Self Confidence Back-Stop Hanging Out With Negative People

Submitted by on January 29, 2011 – 10:46 pmNo Comment

Author: Avdhessh Arya

There are many reasons for the lack of Self Confidence and one of them could be the presence of negative people in your life. Now you might be wondering what does negative people have to do with MY self confidence?

Ok, tell me one thing, what do you think lack of self confidence is?

It is simply an absence of positive self image.

When you are surrounded with negative people, you tend to think negative about yourself and when you keep doing this for a very long period you start feeling low and frustrated and ultimately your self confidence gets affected negatively.

These Negative people suck your mental energy, they keep on troubling you with their negative thoughts, actions and judgments.

Now, there are two types of negative people.

1. People who trouble you unintentionally

2. People who trouble you INTENTIONALLY

The first type is not that harmful but the second one is not just harmful, they are DANGEROUS.

They always try to criticize you just because they are not as good-looking as you are or not as talented as you are and the only way for them to feel good about themselves is to make you feel inferior.

They always try to invade your territory, use your belongings or assets because THEY think you OWE them something.

When you are letting negative people do whatever they want just because you are ‘NICE’, your Self Confidence shall remain low.

Why?

  • Because you are letting them put you down without any apparent reason.
  • Because you are letting them use your belongings and assets which they don’t have any right over.
  • Because you are not keeping in mind the fact that your life is the sum total of every thing you possess and it does include physical things as well.

So if you are feeling frustrated and low on self confidence, look around you. What type of people are you surrounded with? Stop hanging out with negative people and start surrounding yourself with positive, nurturing people.

If you cannot find such people as of now (which is nearly impossible). Decide to stay alone. It is good to be alone than in bad company.

Remember – Only YOU can make things better and it’s never too late. Start today and get your Self Confidence back!

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About the Author

Avdhessh Arya is a Personal Development Coach, Motivational Speaker & Voice Actor based in New Delhi, India.

Learn powerful success & personal development techniques and develop a healthy self esteem, boost self confidence and increase productivity at his blog http://avdhessharya.wordpress.com

Also, find out more about his voice acting journey and listen to his voice samples at http://avdhessharya.voices.com

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