Goals Give Us a Sense of Purpose
Your Lifetime Goals
The first step in setting personal goals is to consider what you want to achieve in your lifetime (or by a time at least, say, 10 years in the future), as setting Lifetime Goals gives you the overall perspective that shapes all other aspects of your decision making.
To give a broad, balanced coverage of all important areas in your life, try to set goals in some of these categories (or in categories of your own, where these are important to you):
- Career:
What level do you want to reach in your career? - Financial:
How much do you want to earn by what stage? - Education:
Is there any knowledge you want to acquire in particular? What information and skills will you need to achieve other goals? - Family:
Do you want to be a parent? If so, how are you going to be a good parent? - Artistic:
Do you want to achieve any artistic goals? If so, what? - Attitude:
Is any part of your mindset holding you back? Is there any part of the way that you behave that upsets you? If so, set a goal to improve your behavior or find a solution to the problem. - Physical:
Are there any athletic goals you want to achieve, or do you want good health deep into old age? What steps are you going to take to achieve this? - Pleasure:
How do you want to enjoy yourself? – You should ensure that some of your life is for you! - Public Service:
Do you want to make the world a better place? If so, how?
Spend some time brainstorming these things, and then select one or more goals in each category that best reflect what you want to do. Then consider trimming again so that you have a small number of really significant goals on which you can focus.
As you do this, make sure that the goals that you have set are ones that you genuinely want to achieve, not ones that your parents, family, or employers might want (if you have a partner, you probably want to consider what he or she wants, however make sure you also remain true to yourself!)