The Answer is the Question … Asking the right questions!
Note from Self Help Guides
In our busy worlds, we sometimes have a tendency to skim read articles thinking that we will simply notice the nugget of wisdom or knowledge we need to make things better. Take your time with this particular article. If something doesn’t make sense right away, re-read it or come back to it until it does. Many people do not take the time to see the obvious of where the wrong questions can lead, and the importance of living the answers to our own right questions. Enjoy.
by: Dr. Edward B. Toupin
We all have questions about our lives, directions, and destinies. It is the curiosity of the unknown that intrigues us to “ask” of the future. It is the stress of the present and events of the past that cause us to “wish” for a future. But, under circumstances and with events that create stresses and distortions, our questions, demands, and wishes can create a future that is specifically implemented to answer our questions.
The future is not “written in stone”, but is instead “etched on a napkin” based on the events of the present. When we ask a question, issue a wish, or make a demand of the Universe, it listens closely. It then establishes the path and creates a future for us to receive the necessary answer.
Of course, we only ask questions based on our past experiences. In many cases we ask general, non-specific questions, while in others we are specific of objectives not in line with our desires and vision. We tend to focus on the past to query for a future, which produces yet another path to answer questions for long past events. As we ask, we experience, and we learn. If we don’t learn, then we ask the same questions and live the same experiences.
One of the common questions I hear is, “Why is life so hard?” That question, along with the accompanying thoughts and energies, creates a future to show the hard life, and its reasons, to provide the answer. We experience what we ask and demand. A better question would be, “How do I create a successful life?” This question, with its energies and thoughts, will create a future to show the path to success.
It is not so much that the Universe takes the time to tend to our questions, demands, and wishes. It is the energies that we produce as we think and query that creates the circumstances in our future. To pose the right queries and demands, think of the future and how to get there in the manner you desire — as opposed to considering the past and how to avoid certain events and circumstances.
Past energies are negative with respect to future goals and objectives and they create situations such that cause fears come to fruition. Future energies are positive and they support the abstract space to create the wishes and desires we long for. However, so many are unacquainted with future energies that they immediately worry that a past event is about to occur as a result of a positive future event — this to keep balance. However, true balance is at your fingertips and cuddled in your desires and vision. Expecting to relive past events as predestined balance will create circumstance to relive those events.
Although it is easier to oscillate at a lower energy in a comfort zone than to examine the possibilities of an unknown, yet pliable future, plan to balance and take control of your life. Define your adjustable future by creating your present. Learn to manifest positive destinies by issuing positive questions and demands of the Universe. Be knowledgeable, be specific, and be direct in your questions and demands as it all comes down to the fact that we truly “get what we ask for”.
About The Author
Edward B. Toupin, Ph.D., is an author, publisher, life-strategy coach, counselor, Reiki Master, and technical writer living in Las Vegas, NV. His research focus is on cognitive transformations, epistemology, and metaphysical topics. Among other things, he provides assistance, books, articles, and screenplays on topics ranging from career success through life organization and fulfillment. For more information, and to find out about his upcoming books, e-mail publish@toupin.com or visit http://www.make-life-great.com or http://www.life-vision-imagineering.com!
Copyright (c) 2004 Edward B. Toupin, Ph.D.
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