Article #519
What is Self Sabotage? To give a short review I’ll use a definition from a dictionary. Self sabotage is “Any undermining of your own cause or priority.” Any behavior, choice action, decision that you make that gets in the way of achieving or accomplishing what you set out to do is considered to be self sabotage.

Article #516
Friday Video: TED Talk – At his Stanford University commencement speech, Steve Jobs, CEO and co-founder of Apple and Pixar, urges us to pursue our dreams and see the opportunities in life’s setbacks — including death itself.

Article #514
People who do not develop and practice good thinking often find themselves at the mercy of their circumstances. They are unable to solve problems, and they find themselves facing the same obstacles over and over again. And because they don’t think ahead, they are habitually in reaction mode. Good thinkers can always overcome difficulties, including lack of resources. And poor thinkers are also frequently at the mercy of good thinkers.

Article #512: Want success to come dancing to you? Then you need to check your emotional intelligence and have the will to improve it if found lacking.

Wherever you believe you are today, living the kind of life you desire or experiencing the emotions of a life as yet unfulfilled, one truth is that, ‘the way in which you decided to spend your time over the past few years has brought you to where you are right now!’

As the saying goes, the only people who like change are busy cashiers and wet babies.

The first date is your opportunity to make a positive impression and in order to make a good impression you must be prepared. Perhaps the biggest decision to make beforehand is where to take your date.

Don’t TRY to think positive. Just STOP thinking negative. By default, guess what’s left? Here are some ways to help you to stop focusing on the negative.

Opportunities are like buses, there’s one coming by every 10 minutes. The problem is you can’t get on every bus, and there is no magical formula for knowing which bus is the right one. So, you make the best guess, step out and grab on only to realize that a different bus would have gotten you there quicker and better.

Self Help Guides celebrates its 500th article! A big thank you to all our readers! A look at the advantages of an open mind and how to have one.