Yep, that’s right, I admit it – I’m a control freak. I wonder if there’s a 12-step program for that. I wanted to bring this issue up as a benefit to all of those poor people out there (virtual assistants especially) who work for people like me. And for the benefit of all of my partners in making the misery.

Here’s a little exercise that if you let sink in by truthfully asking yourself these questions, you may change what you need to change. How would one or more of these questions affect your life for the better if you really applied them?

And people getting stuff that’s still usable will thank you for sharing.

Worrying feeds fears and doubts. Worrying wastes time and consumes energy. Worrying weakens ambition and breeds inaction. Worrying will cripple our confidence, faith, and ability to reason. Worrying kills the ability to think big and reveals an inability to control one’s thoughts. Worrying is the first step towards failure and limits our potential. And yet, ironically, worrying is at times necessary, can be a protection, and is found within everybody. Unfortunately, the ability to discipline …

I define an adult as someone who takes 100 % responsibility for his or her life and situation. Every blaming thought you hold is an obstacle—an obstacle to your success. Blaming is just a story that we tell ourselves, and in the story we distort reality in order to justify ourselves–in order to make ourselves feel right or better than the other person. How do we move beyond blaming?

Sometimes things turn out in ways that you think you have no control over, yet the control which you are living in is better than what you think.

Do you find it difficult to say “no” to others? Do you find yourself losing focus of your agenda because you say “yes” too easily when someone makes a request of you? If so, you will want to read this article and learn a great way to say “no” when it’s not easy to do so.

Here I tell you what you should do if you believe your life sucks. Eight sure shot ways to improve your life, and come out of that life sucks bubble.

When things don’t turn out as expected or desired we often ask, “Why?” But most of the time the answer won’t help…most of our why-questions are something else in disguise. They’re loaded with underlying negative messages.

Like most individuals on this planet, I have spent a good deal of time fantasizing about the life I would have if only I could choose. Perhaps, you too can change your life simply by asking yourself “why not”.