Author: Sarah Petrem

You have just broken up with your boyfriend and you really miss him and want to get in contact with him. Are you wondering what he is doing or if he is missing you as well? Or perhaps you are driving yourself insane thinking he might be with someone else. If you have received some good relationship advice then you have probably staved off contacting him immediately after your breakup when your emotions were running high. Well done! A couple of days have gone by and you are itching to pick up the phone and call him or you want to know when to text him after a breakup.

Timing is crucial! Never call or text immediately after a breakup! Wait until your emotions have calmed down. If you find yourself crying over his photo or your favorite song, then you are most certainly not ready to get back in touch. The best thing to do if you are in this phase is to go out and keep your mind busy. I know it will seem difficult to do but it will definitely help.

One you find that you can think about your breakup without getting over emotional you can now move on to getting in touch. For some people this will take 3 days and for some a week or two. I would recommend at least 3 full days of completely no contact. Now the most important thing is now when to text him but what to say in the text!

You really don’t want to send him a text that will only chase him further away. Your text must sound casual and must make him curious. Curious enough to call you! Yes, I said call you. You are not going to be tricking him into calling you but just making him want to call you. Here is what you can say.

‘Hi Matt, it’s Lisa. Was doing some thinking and just wanted to thank you for everything you have done for me. Thanks. Hope you are well’.

Now, this text will grab his attention. Not only are you thanking him but you sound as though you are over him! This will make him very curious and he will want to know what is going on. This will make him get in touch with you.

When he does get in touch, you need to continue to remain unemotional and you must have a very strategic well thought out plan ready to set into action. Many women fail at this step and rush straight back into his arms only to be dumped the next day!

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