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Attracting Your Perfect Mate: Can I Deliberately Manifest A Relationship With Someone Specific?

Submitted by on August 12, 2012 – 11:55 pmNo Comment

Author: Anisa Aven

A common question asked by law of attraction practitioners is, “Can I apply the laws of the universe, the universal law of attraction to manifest a mate? Can I apply positive thoughts, and creative thoughts to intentionally attract a woman, attract a man, attract a relationship and can I manifest someone specifically?”

The answer is that if the other person wants what you want, then yes you can manifest a specific person into your life, even if they are presently unaware of what they want. However, this is always a delicate matter because you cannot manifest or create in another person’s reality without their participation.

In other words, no matter how badly I want to manifest Mel Gibson or how badly my honey would have liked to have manifested Heather Locklear, the Universe cannot deliver them to our doors without their desires being in harmony with ours – it would NOT be a match and therefore NOT possible.

Another way this could occur is if the other party is ambivalent to what they want and you apply your creative powers to manifest them specifically. You could in this situation manifest them into your life. However, because your attention is on the object instead of the experience even though you’ve manifested them it is NOT likely that they will end up being what you really think you want after all.

This is because whenever we focus on the object instead of the feeling that we believe the object will bring to our lives, then we are focused on external motivators as opposed to the real quest that we all desire – the presence of God. Our feelings are what vibrate and magnetically pull “things” into our lives and if you focus on the external instead of the internal then the Universe will be reading mixed emotions due to the volatile nature of life – thereby, delivering a mate that matches that volatility.

When we focus on “Mr. or Miss Specific Name” instead of what we think that type of relationship will add to our life (that we want but do not now have), then we may get them but we’ll get ALL their good and bad qualities. Make no mistake, when we aren’t of right-mindedness prior to manifesting a mate our manifestation will show this.

The more we have focused on the relationship with “them” and the less we focused on the feelings that a divine relationship will bring to us – the more difficult those flaws will be to handle and overcome.

If what you really want is to experience love, security, prosperity, comfort, peace and serenity in the form of a relationship then start by focusing on how you can bring that into your life now, without the mate, and that will be a better use of your creative powers.

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